Hopeless feelings have returned ih8BeinAlone: Well,
I've gotten to the point that I know she's not coming back to me. (moving back into my empty house has re-affirmed how emotionally distant she's become towards me).
But, now I feel like I'll never be capable of loving someone for a long time. Anyone else feel that way? I can't even imagine dating someone else right now. Not to get too personal, but I've lost my sex drive which I find weird. I can't even think of being emotionally supportive towards someone else. Are these feelings normal?
Sometimes I have panic attacks that I'll be and 85 y/o old man in a run down house with boarded windows just waiting for the kid next door to lose a baseball in my yard so I can kick him outta my yard!
Re: Hopeless feelings have returned corkscrew: Been there, done that. Okay and ready for a relationship now.
The important thing to remember is that this is all on your timetable, no one else's.
Take your time and all of these things will naturally become a part of your life again someday.
Although I wouldn't share that stuff about your waning libido again . . . ::)
Re: Hopeless feelings have returned brokenbaby: Six months out, don't imagine I'll be dating for, well for a very long time, never mind a relationship.
It takes a lot of time. You will know when it is right for you. You are not hopeless and wont end up 85 and alone. It feels it right now because you have to let yourself heal.
As for the libido... sharing it here isn't a big deal, probably wont help with dates though ;) ;)
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There's always Anna Nicole.
Re: Hopeless feelings have returned tomuchpain: Yes its normal and yes your normal. For the first 3 weeks I didn't eat, completly lost any and all sex drive (which hasn't happened since I was like 10), couldn't even fathem talking a another woman let alone going out on a date and I wanted to crawl under a rock and die.
Now I still do not want another relationship and I don't think that I will for a long time. And I think that I am normal and so are you. You can't expect to jump into another relationship while your wounds are still fresh. Besides right now you are having a hard enough time just keeping yourself together let alone to worry about someone new. Just give it time and those feelings of wanting to date again will return.
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