Re: Hopeless feelings have returned sosad05: It will happen when you least expect it. All of the sudden you'll meet someone and you'll feel interested in them. When I filed for divorce, I was sickened by men. I remember telling my therapist I could care less if I ever had sex again and that men made me sick.
Fast forward. I'm in a relationship with such an awesome man now. I can honestly say I want to have sex with him all of the time. It was never even like that with xh. He started out as a friend that I hung out and somewhere became someone I cant imagine ever being without.
Hang in there!
Re: Hopeless feelings have returned chiefkyle: [quote author=sosad05 link=topic=29567.msg289267#msg289267 date=1149031140">
It will happen when you least expect it. All of the sudden you'll meet someone and you'll feel interested in them. When I filed for divorce, I was sickened by men. I remember telling my therapist I could care less if I ever had sex again and that men made me sick.
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I'm there right now. I can't stand woman (no homo tendecies, either). I don't want to have anything to do with them. I tried a couple times, but was the last thing I wanted. I have girls that I hang out with sometimes, but have not interest in them, w.h.a.t.s.o.e.v.e.r.
Re: Hopeless feelings have returned toofreshtothinkright: My drive has dropped ALOT. I can't even wrap my head around thinking I hae to be with another woman. I can't do it. Ih8, it's normal. I'm feeling the same way. All my friedns are engaged or married with their own house. I am the ONLY one that is still renting and is now single, and I'm the oldest at 32.
I feel like my life is over.
Re: Hopeless feelings have returned tryingtofigureout: Well, misery loves company I guess...
I'm two months past the breakup (I was the leaver, btw), things suck, I can't get her out of my head, sex drive is nil, so I understand that--and thinking about dating other women seems terrifying. Actually I believe a friend of mine is sort of trying to hook me up with this woman, she is having a party this Friday and I'm really scared of going. I don't think I'm going to go because I might hook up with this woman who I think is attractive. What is wrong with me!? I can't remember a time in my life when I would have thought that way, but here it is.
I'm thirty years old and sometimes I also feel like I'll never meet anyone worth dating ever again. I've heard this is normal, and based on the similar reactions that everyone is having I would tend to agree...
So, chins up lads and ladies.
Re: Hopeless feelings have returned walkingzombie: h8,
you are not ready to date right now, that's it, you will be in love again-
when the previous relationship ended, were you depressed? did you think you'd never fall in love again?
then you met your ex- look what happened, you fell in love-
now, you need to own your life, because you will fall in love again and I guarrantee it, so you need to make sure that all the things you've ever wanted to do, you do them, because the next time you fall in love,
it might be permanent,
you'll never be single again-
so take this opportunity and enjoy it, because I bet you it won't last that long, compared to the next 60 years of your life you'll be sharing with someone else.
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