Re: GIVE ME A F**KING BREAK!!! brokenbaby: This really sucks.
I have found in my struggles that the fear and anticipation leading up to the event is much worse than the event itself. What is the worst that could happen? And if the worst happens, then what? You lived right? The world wont end.
Keep walking past there. Learn some mindful breathing techniques to help calm your anxiety. The more you face before hand the easier it will be.
JMO.
Good luck!
Re: GIVE ME A F**KING BREAK!!! toofreshtothinkright: because of this, I don't know if I should send that email (IN my FEMALE ADVICE NEEDED) post until after. It is going to be so hard to write that. For some reason, I have xmas stuck in my head - my god am I dreading that this year....it all sucks man...
Re: GIVE ME A F**KING BREAK!!! tomuchpain: Man fresh you just can't get a break. I am sorry that you have to walk into that hell but if you have to do it do it with class and style. Go in there and be confidant don't show her that you are weak or that this is effecting you. Don't give her mean looks or try to say something nice to her just get in there ACE THE TEST and then get the F**K out of there.
I know that it is going to be tough but remember you are in control of the situation. You can make it as bad or as good as you want it to be. Take the high road on this one and your thank yourself in the morning.
Good luck fresh I will keep my fingers crossed for you. Just be strong you will make it through this.
Re: GIVE ME A F**KING BREAK!!! Lumpy: [quote author=tomuchpain link=topic=29579.msg289685#msg289685 date=1149102650">
I am sorry that you have to walk into that hell but if you have to do it do it with class and style. Go in there and be confidant don't show her that you are weak or that this is effecting you. Don't give her mean looks or try to say something nice to her just get in there ACE THE TEST and then get the F**K out of there.
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I second this whole-heartedly. If anything is going to give her pause It'll be you appearing as if you're dealing well with the situation. Way more effective than anything you could write IMHO.
Re: GIVE ME A F**KING BREAK!!! toofreshtothinkright: Thanks guys and girls,
This is going to be hard. The crappy thing is too, that she has already gone down this path...she is a personal trainer. We are both very active (well, me not so much lately), but we both love fitness and she really opened my eyes to this career path, but if I pursue it, we will end up in the same pool of personal trainers in the city...I'm not following her for the sake of following her because I am really interested in this..but I just untagnle my life from hers....
