Re: Think you know me? chiefkyle: My bad 2be, I didn't mean to offend you. I'm talking about the people who think its ok to lable me the bad guy, then hide behind the "I'm innocent and never did anything wrong in my life" blanket.
Crazylife, please stop your childish ways. I reply to people with honesty, no need to lie. Come on, you act like I'm a mass murdere because I defend my stance, and said how I feel.
I will continue to defend myself from people like you. Throw a stupid reply to me, I'll laugh in your face. No need to fire back at you.
Quote evreything I say. ITS ALL TRUE. And anyone who reads my posts knows it. ;)
Re: Think you know me? Crazylife: [quote"> I'm talking about the people who think its ok to lable me the bad guy, then hide behind the "I'm innocent and never did anything wrong in my life" blanket.[/quote">
Tell me something: Who has said this to you? I've read the posts and can find no one who claims to be innocent. You started a thread, asked a question and got answers back you didn't like. Lashed out at people and then hid behind the [quote"> I reply to people with honesty, no need to lie.[/quote"> bit. Well guess what, everyone else was honest with you too!
As for childish behavior perhaps you should re-read some of your own posts. How many people retaliated for your cruel words? That should tell you something.
Go ahead and laugh. I laugh at you while feeling sorry for you.
Re: Think you know me? chiefkyle: Maybe it was, maybe it wasn't childish. I don't think replieing to flameing posts, is childish.
I should just shut up and take your abuse right? Do you want to hear what I have to say, or will you just do your best to turn it against me?
Either way I lose.
Re: Think you know me? smokin: crazylife
i am too innocent. just ask my parole officer, he will tell you.
GOT MILK?
Re: Think you know me? corkscrew: You've now thrown out the words "mass murderer" and "serial killer" to describe how we view you. I don't think anyone has come close to using words that harsh to describe your actions CK.
We disapprove. We'd like to see you handle these situations a little more maturely. Instead of lashing out, take a second to review your message before posting. Discuss these issues like a mature adult, not like a hormone riddled teenage boy who just got dogged.
Most of us are not here to assault you. Not even close. But I think you stand out on this board to me as one of the most confrontational people ever on Ojar.
Its okay to back down and take a moment to think about the message people are trying to get through to you. It doesn't make you any less of a man. If you're truly here to learn and grow, excellent. But you won't learn a damn thing if you don't stop yapping long enough to absorb another point of view.
If you really wanted to find out how your wife feels, then listen to the viewpoint of the "abused" boo-hooers. You might be shocked to find out that they probably feel a lot like your wife does right now. And no, your actions didn't "make" your wife the way she is, but it certainly didn't contribute to her self-esteem and self-worth.
I don't think anyone on Ojar doesn't accept the blame for their part in their divorces. As a matter of fact, I tend to think that Ojarians for the greater part indulge in a lot of needless self-blame.
You know the old saying "take it like a man"? Yeah, you should try that.
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