Re: anger Pick1of50: Anger is not such a bad thing. It’s all part of the process. My wife asked for a divorce in October, and just this week started to really feel it (anger that is). Oh, yes, along with the confusion of how much if this is my fault, what could I have done differently, what can I say to make her change her mind.
I truly know how you feel, and all I can say is that is just so SUCKS! (that’s my mantra for the last couple months). I haven’t spent a lot of time on here, but enough to know that it will get better. When someone wants to leave and is not interested in trying ANYTHING to get through the relationship and just wants, you need to just them go. I know, that doesn’t make it any easier, but don’t beat yourself up over it either. Most likely you did have something to do with the problems in the relationship, but you were willing to try and work through it, it was worth it to you to try and fix things, you tried and did not get anywhere; now you can walk away with a clear conscious and concentrate on yourself.
Hang in their girl! You will be OK!!!
Re: anger wizer_now: [quote author=Pick1of50 link=topic=2.msg457857#msg457857 date=1170910765"> I truly know how you feel
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Felt. Not Feel. We're talking past tense.
[quote author=Pick1of50 link=topic=2.msg457857#msg457857 date=1170910765"> Hang in their girl! You will be OK!!!
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