Who else hates this... worchid76: The fact that U can pick up the signs when couples have there days counted.
I was spending time with friends the other day. And this were a couple I looked up to in terms of how much thy love each other. So I'm around and I start to notice, body language and quik comments etc.
Thought to myself "they are in deep trouble"
Not 2 days later my friend calls to talk "they don't love each other anymore"
I hate the fact I actually notice this stuff now >:(
Re: Who else hates this... LNC: worchid
I know what you mean. I have a co-worker that is the same boat. It is a bomb waiting to explode. I have told him he needs to be more attentive and not be screwing around...but he don't get it. Not until the sh!t hits the fan will he find out.
LNC
Re: Who else hates this... trapped: Seeing that I was too blind to even know my own marriage needed saving, a naivete that divorce cures one of forever, I don't think I can see those tell-tale signs in other peoples relationships either. Just the other day I heard from an old friend who said he and his wife are divorcing.
I remember seeing them together at an event a while back and thinking to myself "wow, those two really have it together. They're solid. If only my ex and I had been that solid and communicative....sigh".
Seems I need some REAL help reading between the lines in this area apparently.
*sigh* again!
Re: Who else hates this... LNC: [quote author=trapped link=topic=30001.msg295896#msg295896 date=1149920193">
Seems I need some REAL help reading between the lines in this area apparently.
*sigh* again!
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Nah it's just that you need to look at the body language also.
Re: Who else hates this... LostTeacher: i notice it too. it's scary, but there is not much you can do about it.
many don't recognize it, and others won't listen to words of reason.
i have one friend that is in a relationship that is just really not good for her. he says he cares for her, loves her even, but doesn't give her what she needs in a relationship. another friend and i try to talk to her, try to get her to understand what she needs is important, but she just can't see it herself. and until she does, there's nothing that we can say.
it's a curse.
LT
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