Re: FYI C-Note: [quote author=startingover link=topic=30002.msg295864#msg295864 date=1149917136">
[quote author=C-Note link=topic=30002.msg295862#msg295862 date=1149916980">
Did he even comment on your dress and nice hair?
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Yes he did, but I am the "bad guy" because I told him I am not an object and felt like he was trying to mark his territory.
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Umm I'm not sure where I stand on viewing women as sex objects. I mean in a way you are, especially on dates. Your pretty much in full bloom and as far as society is concerned that's great.
But guys.. well looks are our strong point that makes us stand out. He's failed to realize charm and attention are far better then the chest beating and ground stumping. Sad there's no way to learn this in school before entering the adult world.
Re: FYI pluscachange: [quote author=C-Note link=topic=30002.msg295866#msg295866 date=1149917418">
[quote author=startingover link=topic=30002.msg295864#msg295864 date=1149917136">
[quote author=C-Note link=topic=30002.msg295862#msg295862 date=1149916980">
Did he even comment on your dress and nice hair?
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Yes he did, but I am the "bad guy" because I told him I am not an object and felt like he was trying to mark his territory.
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Umm I'm not sure where I stand on viewing women as sex objects. I mean in a way you are, especially on dates. Your pretty much in full bloom and as far as society is concerned that's great.
But guys.. well looks are our strong point that makes us stand out. He's failed to realize charm and attention are far better then the chest beating and ground stumping. Sad there's no way to learn this in school before entering the adult world.
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Sure there is, it's called "dad".
Am I the only dad left that talks to his son about stuff or something? Please tell me that can't be the case.
Re: FYI LNC: [quote author=C-Note link=topic=30002.msg295866#msg295866 date=1149917418">
Umm I'm not sure where I stand on viewing women as sex objects. I mean in a way you are, especially on dates. Your pretty much in full bloom and as far as society is concerned that's great.
But guys.. well looks are our strong point that makes us stand out. He's failed to realize charm and attention are far better then the chest beating and ground stumping. Sad there's no way to learn this in school before entering the adult world.
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I disagree, women are not sex objects...at least for me. I look for someone that I can hold a converstion with, someody that is confident about themselves and has a great personality. At least that is what attracted me to my STBXW...
LNC
Re: FYI startingover: I just want someone who treats me with respect and has a good heart. Is that really too much to ask for?
Re: FYI LNC: [quote author=startingover link=topic=30002.msg295870#msg295870 date=1149917827">
I just want someone who treats me with respect and has a good heart. Is that really too much to ask for?
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I think that is what everyone wants...there is someone for you out there. You'll find him sooner or later..
LNC
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