Be carefull what you ask for you might just get it! NO DATE: I came on this board with a screen name of "no date and over the last few weeks I've had more than my share of dates ironically enough, most of the women I dated all looked better than average but alas no chemistry could be found {elusive} and some had chemistry but lots of problems eh' not ready for all of that just yet!!! and there was this one girl who I kept on the back burner because she wasn't the ideal weight for me {ducks behind rock"> so I finally ran out of possibles and I decided to see if there was anything worth pursuing with this chick, we started emailing regularly and good god do we ever have so much in common! but better than that she is "nuts about me" and to be honest she is like a breath of fresh air for me the diametric opposite of my nasty mean yuky disgusting ex! she is sweet and a great listener {she's a counselor} good thing lol! not drama motivated!!! ya know she is so what I asked for !! looks like I broke the cycle here, geese have i learned or something? :)
Re: Be carefull what you ask for you might just get it! thehitekrednek: First off: No Date has adate, No date has a date!!!! Ha, Now that that is out of the way, Way to go dude, It's all abouut getting along. Date some one that you don't hate.
Re: Be carefull what you ask for you might just get it! shygirl2006: Congrats! That is great and I am happy for you. I hope you do continue to follow with the lead and go with it and see where it leads you. There is nothing wrong with having issues with the outside as in her not being the weight range you are attracted to. What matters is you went past that and are getting to know her for who she is. The outside can be changed, the inside is who she really is. You may find yourself more attracted to her the more you get to know her.
Re: Be carefull what you ask for you might just get it! NO DATE: thanks guy's!
while it's true she fall outside my weight range every thing else seems to be there! even the fact that she is a bit computer unsavvy {not yet addicted to dating sites im etc."> and that is really a major concern for me at least when "fishing" for a so. you know what I mean I'm sure! {I'm already addicted"> we were supposed to meet sunday but she had a migraine howeverI think it was just eye strain from the pc because we chatted for many hours the night before and again this morning, We have a dinner date planned for tonight at 7p. and I am looking forward to it,.. I'll tell ya personality wise she is on the mark for me and she's sort of mellow which again is something I need in my life after all that drama with evilex {is that a new one} it's a really good combination I think since I can be hyper at times which is an understatement! I just hope I don't drive her nuts with all of my energy we'll see.
wish me luck!
Re: Be carefull what you ask for you might just get it! whythisnow: Great News ND !!!
Best of luck ....
I too have an Evil Ex that lives on Drama. The girl I am seeing is very different and I would never have thought we would be a good couple but we are crazy about each other. My GF is very skinny and a bit of a geek, girly girl. She tried golfing and hiking with me this week-end and woke up sore on Monday. She wants to try again, learn more and get better.
I cooked dinner for her Sunday night and she "helped" by giving me advise about the veggies. My kids even ate them. She is sooo cute and SANE. After years of insanity it is just wonderful to have another person around that is calm, sane and educated.
We both really like were we are in our relationship and do not want to change anything. We just want to see each other more.
FIDO
