Re: I've Never Been A Quiter thehitekrednek: It's the freaking images in my head, all the time, they won't stop. If I can get past them, I'll be fine.
Re: I've Never Been A Quitter yella: Have you guys been going to counseling, Spike? I mean you and her together? Have you seen one on your own?
I wish I had a way of erasing this for you, but I can't. I can't even erase my own stuff.
All I can say is that I'm sorry. I wish none of us had to go through anything like this. :(
Re: I've Never Been A Quitter thehitekrednek: We've seen 3 counsellors, I can't deal with any of them, I can't have a preacher, I don't believe in it. We're still looking.
Re: I've Never Been A Quitter yella: These have all been religious counselors? I can see where you'd have issues there...
I'm assuming the images you're seeing are of her with him. These, if you're anything like I am, aren't going to go away. This is something that you have to learn to deal with. But I'm not sure how.
The fact is that we as humans can't forget what happens in our lives, as much as we want to, it doesn't happen. Anyone telling you that it can is in another world. Yes, it's good to let go of the past, but there are some things in our past that are impossible to forget. I understand that.
Life isn't a switch you can just turn on and turn off.... neither are memories.
I'm going going to sit here and tell you to give up, but I'm not going to tell you to forget about things either. I'm going to tell you to learn to deal with them and learn to have patience. Funny, me saying that to someone when I can't even do it myself. ::) But In understand the concept.
I wish I could do more to help you, but I'm searching for help too, so I'm not going to be any good to you or anyone else. All I can do is ask questions and offer suggestions. In any event, I hope it helps a little. :-\
Re: I've Never Been A Quitter thehitekrednek: I guess it's a game, to see if we can withstand it. You always brighten my day Smiley, even if you can't help at least you know what I'm going through and that helps too.
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