Re: I'm totally devastated Feel: I agree with SOS, try an dget some type of compensation for all that you did... seems to me he took advantage. He knew all along you would pay for everything
Re: I'm totally devastated Melbel: Shocked,
Welcome! I am sorry that he is putting you through this. It isn't fair and he should have been man enough to not marry you if he was still going to "play the field".
I try to find a positive in all situations...I think yours will be that you will be free! Yes, 10 years is a long time but it could have been even longer and you would have used part of your life on a person who is so undeserving of you!!!!
Me being helpful~
My girlfriends and I have a "thing" we do. When ever we are feeling bad or going through HELL. We put extra effort into looking good....this may include wearing heels to work, a new shade of lip stick, a few extra minutes on the hair and make up, going to get pedicures and then to dinner with friends and a little retail therepy goes a long way ;)!!! Something to get your mind off him for a few minutes and something to put a smile on your face! It also gives me a boost of confidence when I need it most.
Be strong!
Melissa
