The End - Stage 1 Ezzy: For my own reasons and my own needs, I really put every effort into a reconciliation.
However, my worthless stbx has been hedging his bets and was much less than honest for pretty much the entire marriage.
But especially for the last.. oh YEAR or so.
I find out he's cheating and it's "only been a couple of months" I dig a little and discover it's been a YEAR. It started practically as soon as we moved in.
I find out he's f**king the sl*t upstairs.
NO! He's been having THREESOMES with her and who ever she has over that day!!!!!
I find out he's been surfing singles sites.. NO! He and his little f*cktart have several ads on SWINGERS sites!!!
He says it's over every time I confronted him and ever single time it was just a lie to buy him time.
Well it's OVER.
After one more sleepless miserable night I woke him up at 4am and told him to find a place to live because he wasn't coming back.
And that's what happened. I didn't know he was capable of saying "I'm sorry" that much. What a crock.
So now, I sit in my horrible messy basement apartment, below the wh*re and her new live in assh*le.
I am sad. but I am so used to feeling that way it doesn't really matter.
But now, there is also a great RELIEF.
No more lies, no more betrayal, no more asshole and no more feeling like s**t all the time.
So that's it. The end. But I know there is the legal end of things to work out and I honestly can't even think about it right now. It scares me.
Any advice would be appreciated.
Thanks.
Re:The End - Stage 1 jason_stl: Document everything and don't take his calls. Hire an attorney right away if he tries to get nasty.
Wish you the best of luck.
Re:The End - Stage 1 justmenow: Ewww.
#1 - GET TESTED FOR STDs. Seriously. This guy grosses me out. God knows what he's brought home to you.
#2 - GET A NEW APARTMENT
(in that order) You will be SO much better off with out this loser. He will get his in the end - count on it. How many 90 year old swingers do you know? Yeah, I don't know any either (thank God).
Re:The End - Stage 1 PiscesGoddess: Ezzy-
I agree with JMN 10,000 percent.. get yourself tested ASAP and move move MOVE! Get the fork outta there and move on down the road..let the sleezbags have each other.
You already got your revenge..she has to put up with your dirty nasty ex and you get to start over .. You deserve WAYYY better than this..
Hang in there!
Hugs!
Pisces G.
Re:The End - Stage 1 Ezzy: It's utterly disgusting, I know.
And he didn't even THINK about the fact that he's humping half the damn town and bringing it home to me.
It's not just unkind, its freaking evil!!!!!!
I already have the appointment.
Thank you for all your support :)
