Re: Ah, there it is.... Plucky: You all make good points. I'm afriad to vent, though, until I know what I'm talking about. I'm bad about thinking things to death before I say anything, usually.
I was alone for a year before I met AD and I was happy alone. I get what you're saying, BR, but I'm not sure if that's it. I think it's because I'm afraid of getting hurt and I'm probably trying to sabotage the whole thing.
Ugh. Nutjob here.
Re: Ah, there it is.... Chris: well, why did your ex cheat on you or why did your marriage end???? i'm sure there are ways to prevent that type of activity or outcomes by how you handle the current relationship. i'm being kinda vague, but i don't know all the details. sorry...
Re: Ah, there it is.... Plucky: My ex has BPD so there was no avoidable issue. Just bad stuff.
I'm sure I'll be fine. I'm going to spend a lot of time alone this week and get over being fidgety before I talk to him about anything. That's a feat in itself given our living situation. But, I think that will help clear things up for me. It's been so long since I even wanted to be with someone that I'm having a hard time getting the gears turning again, I guess.
Re: Ah, there it is.... Plucky: Things are straight now. He and I couldn't be better :)
Re: Ah, there it is.... Chris: is this a little sarcasm or are things better? what helped smooth things over?
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