Got an interesting Email ih8BeinAlone: I just got an email from her this morning. The tone of this email was a lot different than previous tones. She started off the email by being very friendly and telling me about her doctors appointment etc... Previous emails have always been "strictly business" and sometimes scolding.
Of course there were a lot of "business" related things it did seem genuine this time that she was interested in what I was doing. I saw her the other day driving down the road by herself. So I know her new b/f was out of town this weekend. Her only other friend down here is moving on Friday. This is prolly counter productive but I wonder if she's trying to reach out to me in some way. Prolly giving myself false hope huh?
I told her to stop by if she wants when she's visiting her friend accross the street. I doubt she will.
Re: Got an interesting Email fkunone: Don't take the niceties as a reaching out, personally. I don't know your full story. But just take it as courtesy.
Nothing else.
Don't read into it.
Re: Got an interesting Email drowning. . .:
Just be careful ih8. You can't possibly tell what her true intentions are. It's important to try not to guess either. She's probably going through some transition issues since her only friend is moving away. You're comfortable to her and in that sense she is reaching out. Do not allow yourself to forget that there is someone else in the picture. . .
From the posts that I've read, it seems like you're doing ok. Be strong and stay on that path. . .
My thoughts are with you. . .
Re: Got an interesting Email Feel: ih8,
don't start grasping... she maybe felt a little insecure with her new man...
I wouldn't take as anything... she probably won't talk to you this way the next time and you will fell worse! :-*
Re: Got an interesting Email ih8BeinAlone: yeah, you guys are right. one pattern i've seen in all this is that it takes him to be out of town for a few days for her to call me or generate a conversation with me in some fashion.
my heart is so split. on one hand, i keep formulating ways to pursue her in a few months. and i think to myself is it worth the stress? on the other hand, i feel like telling her completely off and getting her out of my life.
btw, don't interpret this as me still hanging onto hope. i know that it's more than likely she won't come back, but i've spent too much time and energy on this girl to simply give up 100%.
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