Re: Resisting... Chris: thanks all.....
it usually starts off casual....i just wish it would stay there. i thought there may be others looking for the same thing...just can't find them (or not finding me).
Re: Resisting... audi_driver: well......I dont date unless I am looking for a long term relationship......
If I am looking for a good time, I usually just have one thing in mind and I get rid of them rather quickly........
I just keep it in my head not to get involved.....one or two dates and that is it.....
The two times I went into it thinking about a long term relationship, one was 4 years and the other one was my wife........
To make a long story short.....
short term = sex
long term = love and sex ;D
Re: Resisting... charlee: i'm right there with ya BR493...everyone that i've been around turns out wanting more. i'm newly single so i'm going slow but guys around here are not like that! lol
good luck
Re: Resisting... NO DATE: [quote author=justmenow link=topic=30058.msg296568#msg296568 date=1150136932">
Well, I know it is possible, because my X is a [color=red"> serial dater [/color"> and never seems to get roped into a relationship. Maybe I should give you his number - he's become somewhat of an expert in "date-and-run" ;D
Seriously, though, go out and have fun w/ no expectations and if you sense the woman wants to go further, just be honest up front. It saves a lot of pain in the future.
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I coined that phrase over twenty years ago! lol I'm impressed that it still lives on!!!