Re: Someone please make this make sense icwtsmnl: how about this possibility? you say he wants to get back together. maybe he figures that you'll confront him about the site, and it will be another chance for him to talk to you about getting back together. regardless of whether you want to or not.
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how about this possibility? you say he wants to get back together. maybe he figures that you'll confront him about the site, and it will be another chance for him to talk to you about getting back together. regardless of whether you want to or not.
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Well, when I mentioned it he didn't turn the conversation that way. And when I asked him how the apartment search was going he suddenly remembered tat he had somewhere he needed to be. I think he intends to handle the divorce by avoiding it and hoping it will go away.
Re: Someone please make this make sense icwtsmnl: its not easy for him to direct the conversation towards getting back together, especially since he's tried before and you're not interested. but just cause he's afraid to bring it up again doesn't mean he's not thinking about it. he doesn't want to move out. he wants you. but that's his problem.
