Re: Someone please make this make sense whythisnow: SB,
I think you need to confirm that he signed you up.
So, tell him you checked and you have proof he signed you up when you had a forensic done on the computer.
After he admits to it ask why.
He might have someone on the side and wants you to meet some one else for 1) less spousal support or 2) INSANE.
Good Luck !!!
FIDO
PS
Run like hell.
Re: Someone please make this make sense tomuchpain: This one is very strange indeed. I can only think of 2 possibilities:
1. He signed you up so he could use it against you.
2. Do you have any kids?
I agree with lumpy...errrr....FIDO that you should confirm if he signed you up or not. Check your credit card receipts he had to pay for it somehow.
Re: Someone please make this make sense NO DATE: [quote author=LNC link=topic=30078.msg296693#msg296693 date=1150144349">
SusanB:
Wow, is very illogical ???. Maybe he wants to confront you about it and make it seem that somehow it is your fault (has a guilty conscience). Or maybe he is trying to work a case against you for when and if the divorce happens. I don't know what to tell you just hang in there. Best of luck to you.
-LNC
[/quote"> bingo!
Re: Someone please make this make sense smokin: like said, if your state is fault state, and he can try to prove adultry, you lost everything..............
try to keep a legal log. theres some available over the internet, that are able to upholld in court. good luck.
Re: Someone please make this make sense SusanBaker: So, I decided to just mention that I had found out that someone had set me up on this dating site and that I thought it was just weird. He got really quiet and tried to act like he didn't know anything about it, but he's never been a good liar. He never admitted it, though. He knows that I know it was him. I told him that I cancelled the account and reported it to the web site and that I was keeping a log of any odd incidences like this should I ever need them in the future.
I guess it could be guilty conscience, but I doubt it. I already know about the couple of times that he's cheated. Our issues have more to do with the fact that he keeps us in the poor house because he treats our money like a kid with his first allowance. I'm sick of fighting over money. I'm sick of the "surprise" bills from his inability to control his spending.
Texas is a no fault, community property state. So it really doesn't make sense that he would do this, but I guess I will have to watch out for myself a little closer.
Yes, we do have children, which is the main reason I had not already filed for a divorce. He's given me countless reasons. If it wasn't for the kids I would have divorced him about 10 years ago. I had to endure a messy divorce as a child and I wanted to spare my children from that. So I tried everything else first. It seems I have run out of options and I want better for myself and my kids. I can be broke and miserable all by myself, I don't need his help for that. If he's going to be more of a hinderance on the family then a contributing member of it, then it's time for him to go.
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