Well, I saw him! Feel: I went to bring my son to his first soccer game and yes he was their...
We played it off pretty cool, but when we got to the field, he started... you know how cute our son looks out their, it would have been nice to have another...
Through out all the lines... I can see in his face he is hurting, but hurting about what? A) that he bought a house with the OW after 2 months that I finally walked away B) that he wasn't able to screw me one last time
C) that he can't controll me or what I do anymore an dhe doesn't have me at his beck and call...
THis is crazy... I don't understand him... 2damb years he was with this OW... I waited, cried, pleeded, begged, but NNNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOO he wouldn't smartin up and now he buys a house with her and still says he wants to be with me and only bought the house to invest, to make money because he is in debt.... WELL, if you are in debt why buy another house, the one we had was perfectly fine and new... this one is about 70 years old, needs roof, on old electrical & plubing lines... and he bought to invest...
The guy just never stops to make sure about what he is doing... I am so angry at him, he is such a fool.
Anyway my son played a great game and he won his first! HE was so cute in his little uniform!
Re: Well, I saw him! Feel: Fleur,
How do you get it so right all the time, you sure your not a therapist? LOL
Actually I thought the same and if I can see the slightest doubt in his eyes I know he is lieing to me, no matter what he says, but he is doing this becuase he knows he messed up and he is in so many lies already he can't stop... I know he knows he screwed up... He also knows I won't go back (I wish I could trust him) If he only really knew about the saying "learn from your mistakes" :-\
Re: Well, I saw him! Chris: in all honesty; him telling you those things is out of disrepect for what he has put you through (without knowing your entire story), knowing what you wanted, but still proceeded with what HE wanted. he should be respecting of the situation, let you enjoy your life and your son and stop with all the pity sympathy pleas.
once i knew that my ex had moved on and that we were no longer an option, i was supportive of her and geared our relationship toward our kids and kids only.
Re: Well, I saw him! Feel: Even tho I have this amazing man that is life saver for me, I can't seem to get my X out of my head, is this normal?
Re: Well, I saw him! Chris: [quote author=Feel link=topic=30090.msg297182#msg297182 date=1150221601">
Even tho I have this amazing man that is life saver for me, I can't seem to get my X out of my head, is this normal?
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it means you haven't totally moved on then. maybe it's because your X hasn't let you, by telling you the things you mentioned in the original post. as your relationship moves toward a friendship/co-parenting one, the more you will be able to focus on the new people in your life and not let the ones in the past get in the way.
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