Re:My irrational s2bx's periodic jerk outbreak janee: Selfish control freak. Apparently, he is thinking of himself. Never mind how he's affecting your kid. Kids do pick up on that stuff. That is selfish and childish behavior. Both of you need to treat this like a business. Don't have to be friends, but have to be civil to each other. He's hurting your son, not you. Your stbx is doing it to himself. He looks bad, not you. If this continues, you may have to attend the events separately until he realizes what he's doing to your son.
Re:My irrational s2bx's periodic jerk outbreak Lumpy: Yo LL, wassup? Don't let the A-Hole drag you down to his level. Sounds to me like he's just verifying all the reasons that you left him in the dust for. Anyone who would pull this crap at his sons' graduation isn't worth the aggravation. I hope at some point he figures out that his childs' happiness should come before his own. I'm just glad to know your son has an incredible mom to fill in the gaps his ridiculous father isn't filling right now. Stay sane sweetie. ;D
Re:My irrational s2bx's periodic jerk outbreak ChristyM: Yeah, sometimes we have to be both parents ...
Look on the bright side, at least now you can wake up every morning and thank God that you are getting away from that moron and not wasting one more minute on him ...
Hang in there.
Christy
Re:My irrational s2bx's periodic jerk outbreak incoherentlonghorn: I am incredibly appreciative of your comments and support!!! Thank you.
Just Me - Its a shame you can relate, but we are free
JMN - Lemon cake is not as bad as I initially thought, but we are free
Pic - Missing you, where is a good truck when I need one (the heavy kind), hope you are taking care of Canada, and holding down the fort, but we are both almost free
luv2drive - mine is also 37 (cradle robber ) and that needing help routine under my circumstances was definitely a way to continue communication. Good thing that gets old, but we're free
Janee - He's still trying to enact his revenge on me, still bitter 9 months later so I fear that I may have to separate us during events to some extent. One day I hope we can function smoothly or I dream of actually working together for our sons sake, but we are free.
Lumpy - thank you, I am a great mom. Thought you fell into the deep and vast internship hole...but you are almost free
Chrisy - that comment is inspiring, every morning I can be thankful, and although I sometimes complain about having to be both parents...my son is worth it!
Hang in there and have a great day all!
LL
