Re:any healthy post-divorce relationships? lucyloo: My thought is that if you love him at all, well, it's understandable that you will want to be friends. At the same time, speaking only for myself, I couldn't handle losing a man I loved a second time- when he has a new woman in his life, and being friends with me only complicates things.
Or the other way around. I'd hate to have to turn him away becasue I have a new love interest.
It's not just that either, but then again, I was good friends with my son's dad until he died. He lived out of town and so it was limited to phone calls, but it was really nice knowing him the bit that I did post relationship. Even tho he was remarried.
Lucy
