Can I join in? Katie Wesley: Hi. I'm 26 (jeez, that looks young -I've been saying I'm 27 since March) and 7 weeks ago I came home from a visit with my aunt. (This story is much longer than I'm going to make it, but to begin I just want to ask how you guys will feel about me joining your group.)
So, I came home to find out that my boyfriend/fiance and my best friend have discovered that they're in love and that they love eachother more than me. So, bye-bye katherine.
I haven't legally been married, but I have been living with the a-hole for the better part of 9 years. We have division of property and things of that nature.
Anyway, I've found that I'm facing serious walls when talking to my other friends about it. I have other issues that make me not want to talk to my parents about it.
Everyone is tired of hearing my anger. I try to put on a smile for everyone, but that only ended in an explosion of emotion toward a group of friends last night. I live in a pretty small city (about 150,000 pop) and I have to deal with hearing about As* and Beeotch everyday. Infact, several of my friends are keeping their friendship with the selfish duo. Of course, when they talk to me about it, they say that they don't condone the behavior, but what are they supposed to do?! I thought that your friends are supposed to be on your side.
To top things off, I had a miscarriage a couple of weeks ago. I had to deal with it on my own, and it just pushes me toward losing my shi*! I am so mad that I don't know what to do.
No one understands that my whole life has been turned upside down. It was my understanding that my ex and I were going to spend the rest of our lives with eachother. I've been with him my entire adult life. I've supported him, he's supported me. We're both working and trying to get through school. He even told me to go book the wedding grounds. And, if the worst were to happen, I figured that I would at least have laura to lean on. We've been inseperable for 4 years, and apparently my oblivion allowed my 2 best friends to pursue lust and love and cutting me out of the equation.
I'm working my way through hell with very little support from my support system.
Can I join in?
Re:Can I join in? justmenow: Welcome to OJAR Katie. You'll have to learn the secret handshake....
Open your arms up wide, now step closer, closer, now close your arms. This is called a hug. Now you're in...
Re:Can I join in? Katie Wesley: Thank you :)!
Re:Can I join in? Babydoll: Absolutely Katherine! The piece of paper we have, doesn't make the pain different. Any of us who have been through that kind of betrayal can understand your pain. I know its hard and it hurts. I have days that are good and days that I fall apart.
Feel free to send me a message if you want to chat.
Hey Justmenow, can I get in on that hug? I need one today...having one of those bad days....
Re:Can I join in? justmenow: Of course Babydoll. You know, I only give out free hugs because I need them so much lately. This particular part of the roller coaster has been going down a lot lately. I could sure use an upswing here soon...
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