Re:Army phsycho CYTOTOXIC: :)Thanks Babydoll i also was just talking to my sister about it right now when i read your reply.. i think the same thing.. and your right i am MAD >:(..AND WITH EVRY RIGHT... I WILL NOT REPLY...Thanks
Re:Army phsycho CYTOTOXIC: so the ex strickes again just saying hi again.. uhh the funny thing is that after 6 months i dont know what the heck to answer should i just say hi or what do you want ? ??? I mean after all this time it feels like i just have so much to say but cant really let him have it :o its like if i where to answer back to a total stranger and then my feelings are hurt and im very confussed...Hate it :-\
Re:Army phsycho Babydoll: Hi Cyto, I totally understand wanting to let him have it.
I think about (just about every day too) exactly what I want to say to him. Tell him how weak and pathetic he is, tell him he was never really a man, always a little boy running away from life. Tell him that he will never find anyone who will love him as much as I did and would have given and done anything and everything for him that I could have.
Because of the circumstances and his history (and because I know him like a book), I know he'll wake up one day from the deluded cloud and drug-induced brainwashing thats he's in and will come back to me for forgiveness or another chance. At that point I will totally let him have it. But I will do it in person. No phone or e-mail. I want to see the tears and the pain because I want him to feel what I felt this entire time. Maybe it sounds harsh? Maybe but right now, I feel he really needs a slap of reality.
As for you, I would only answer if you want to start a dialogue with him. He may suck you into a string of e-mails going back and forth and if you are determined to cut off communication with him, than I wouldn't. Or send him one last e-mail, but make it the e-mail that truly states all you feel and all the truth of the situation. Make it more a "goodbye" message.
Whatever you chose to do. Think about it first. Good luck.
Re:Army phsycho Sharp: There's one fundamental thing that is bothering me about the way he's acting. You need to let him know your daughter did not want to read his e-mail, and make it well known that you do not approve of the content in the e-mail he sent her. He needs to understand she is a child, not an adult, and cannot be expected to rendomly "forgive daddy" for "being a dumney" after he has hurt her so badly. Why do men that walk out oftheir children's lives not understand these are helpless. impressionable children we are dealing with, nt little adults? ARRGGHHH. :-\ Sorry, my ex is just as oblivious. Know you are making the right decisions and hopefully he will get the picture to back off if he can't be dependable!
