Re:Fatal flaw? BankerChick: Yeah, mine was alcoholism/addictions on the side of my stbx as well.
But he's a teetoatler now. But it still doesn't affect him looking down on women. He still treats me with disrespect just like he did before.
I was too young to handle everything I went through. I was too forgiving for unforgivable things. I changed to be what I thought he wanted and ended up not liking myself in the end. lol neither did he.
Re:Fatal flaw? INCT: I have 2:
1. Her Alcoholism
2. I couldn't fathom that a career would be more important to a person than a marriage. I
I was rudely awakened by someone who defined themselves through a career.
INCT
Re:Fatal flaw? Babydoll: Echoing some of the other posts:
1. His alcoholism/drug use. I too forgave too many unforgivable things.
2. Thinking that all of my love and support would be enough to see him through his problems.
3. Made life too easy for him....never really saw his maturity or ability to be responsible.
4. Too trusting of someone and justifying his bad actions with the fact that he did "sweet' things for me sometimes.
Re:Fatal flaw? Sharp: Babydoll, you said it in a nutshell. My #5 however was being naive enough to trust a perpetual liar! ::)
Re:Fatal flaw? Babydoll: Sharp,
Ditto to your #5.
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