Re: Making plans w/ new 'dates' superwife: [quote author=NO DATE link=topic=30505.msg303344#msg303344 date=1151086482">
this is too easy... come on! ask the guy to go to the wedding! and if he say's yes then in like a day or two ask him to go shopping with you for a gift and once he has money invested there is practicaly no way he's going to flake you [trust me this is going to work">
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Interesting theory, no date. My probelm with this... I wouldn't ask him to contribut to the gift. he'd be going as my guest.
But it is funny, b/c my last bf asked me to attend a wedding with him very early on...earlier than this. It was about 4 or 5 weeks into our talking. So I had a mini-freak out there too. But i accepted. Then we got into a talk before the wedding about money and such...and he said to me 'don't worry, i'll take care of the wedding gift'... I felt like saying I was expecting you to. it's your relative, not mine. is this wrong of me??
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If he flakes on you at the last minute...have a backup plan of some kind, I suppose. What that might be? I dunno. I'm sure there's SOMEONE who's willing to go. But then again, you don't want to bring a complete stranger.
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I kind of do have a back up, jugg. But I think it would be a littel presumtuous to think my back-up will just be waiting around in case sw doesn't have a date by then. he would need to make arrangements as well. So i think I need to make a decision earlier than a week before. My back-up is a really nice guy, and i don't want to d*ck him around.
Or i could just go alone...
Re: Making plans w/ new 'dates' Soo: I would not ask . . . if you are kinda wondering about it now, then you probably know it's way too early to ask someone you just met to a wedding. I'd say go with what Tara opined.
Re: Making plans w/ new 'dates' superwife: Welcome Soo!!
Yeah, I'm gonna hold off a bit. I've been thinking, and I really need to take this day by day. I don't want to jump the gun. Besides, I don't know how I am going to feel about him. Rigth now my heart is not in it 100%, which is definitely not a bad thing. I know it's only a wedding, but...my paretns are going to be there.
Plan B is looking better and better. But even with that, there'd be some explaining...
Re: Making plans w/ new 'dates' fkunone: [quote author=superwife link=topic=30505.msg303940#msg303940 date=1151244734">
Plan B is looking better and better. But even with that, there'd be some explaining...
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In every respect, y'gotta do whatcha gotta do, eh? I'm sure things will work out in the long run. No worries.
Re: Making plans w/ new 'dates' superwife: Yeah, I'm sure it will be good, whatever happens.
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