Re: Nervous Feel: Don't settle on anything! U need to be 100% for yourself, ha, who does he think he is..... ::)
Re: Nervous kitkat: gehhh....didn't go well
well I didn't agree to the settlement. The issue really at stake isn't property, it's our kids and things that will have an impact on them.
After all was said and done he called me back to blubber unintelligably.
I really do feel bad for the guy. I can't be a mom to him though. :-[
Re: Nervous Lumpy: What points are you guys stuck on. Maybe we can throw out some ideas for compromises.
Re: Nervous Feel: Kit,
good for you for not giving in... they drop u on your ass and then expect you to compromise!
What is it that he wants...
Re: Nervous kitkat: Thx guys & gals!
Um he wants us to agree to not move out of the county. Should I/he move out of the county we agree to turn over primary residential custody to the other (I'm currently primary).
I cannot forsee the things that may happen over the course of the next 12 yrs. I can't agree to that. Anyhow, just because I can move out of the area doesn't mean I will. I don't want to limit my (or his) manuverability. What if one of us remarries, gets a great job offer, etc...?
I would rather come to an agreement when the situation arises.
Also, he wants his c/s reduced. Until I get my degree I don't see that happening. I would love to not take a dime from him. One day soon I'll stop taking c/s from him and have him put part into an emergency acct for the girls and part into a pre-paid college fund for them.
