Re: 3:00am, I can't sleep! thehitekrednek: Don't take him, at all!!!! When he calls other then at 8 to talk to your son, don't listen to the messege, simply erase it. All you are doing is giving him control, take it away.
Re: 3:00am, I can't sleep! Feel: Spike it's a court order, i won't go against that but my Lawyer has put in a request to have that stopped!
Re: 3:00am, I can't sleep! Roseville:
Take back control of your life for yourself and your son. He's only 3 and too young to understand what the heck is going on, so it's up to you to shelter him from as much of this as you can. Let him talk to his Daddy, I'd never condone using the kids as pawns or keeping them from their Dad unless he's abusive to him, let him have his nightly talk, and if he calls and your son doesn't want to talk, just tell him, he doesn't want to talk. Ask your son while he is on the phone, so he can hear him say that he doesn't want to talk, and then be done with it. Good Luck.
Re: 3:00am, I can't sleep! thehitekrednek: I'm not asking you to go against the court order, but any other calls should not be tolerated, and he should be given a window, like between 7:30 and 8:15, is the only time he can call.
Re: 3:00am, I can't sleep! Feel: Spike your right, and I wasn't but sometimes he agrivates me so much taht I just talk to him to hear what he has to say and hang up...
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Even when he hears my son say no, even tot eh point where my son starts to kick me he says that I don't let him tlak to him... I asked my husband if it was right to put our son through this and me just sit and allow him to kick me, he says give him a time out, why would I give him a time out for something he doesn't want to do? anyway I tell him to stop it he is adding stress to mine and my sons life!
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