i told him Duckiew: that I miss him so much, and that I still love him and that I want us work through this...even though i know he doesn't.
now, i feel stupid for doing that. really really stupid.
was it stupid? email is worse is than drunk dialing. now i have it in my bloody sent box proving that i am weak when it comes to him. i'm so sad. terribly sad.
Re: i told him confused101: Nah, sometimes it feels better to get it off your chest whether it does any good or not. You don't have anything to prove to anyone. Now that it is in your sent box, the next time you have an urge just take a look at that email and you'll know you won't have to send one again.
Part of getting through this is learning to understand that telling them how you feel does no good. Once you have that understanding, it gets so much easier to move on.
Re: i told him Feel: Duck,
don't worry, it was how u felt and sometimes doing this helps you see where he really wants to be as well as heal!
Re: i told him icwtsmnl: I told this to another person on here when we were complaining about how stupid we felt after calling/texting our exes. what i said was, ok, it's not the "PC" thing to do, but we are human and we still have feelings of love and warmth. and it is never wrong to express caring. even if you got no response from the ex, just know that you released some pent of feelings of love, not hate. it's ok. don't kick yourself. just let it go and move on.
Re: i told him RW1976: I feel you Duckie. I have had to resist E-mailing her at least 3 times a day. I will usually go on this board and do some reading or ask for advice to quell the urge. Have you tried writing the letter and then not sending it?
Since we broke up last week I have keep a journal that I write in everyday before I go to bed. I write down what I am feeling and how much I miss her. Give those a try, it might help.
RW
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