Re: i told him broken_saint: dont worry about it duckie. it just proves that you have nothing to hide. one day he'll realize what he's lost. from now on, every urge you get to contact him tell yourself to do the opposite.. you don't want to feed his empowerment anymore. take this time to heal. just know that in time, you will feel much better and you will be able to see things more clearer. give yourself some time. it's going to be a hell of a ride, i assure you. there WILL BE good days, and there will be bad days.
keep on posting tho, we're here for you.
hugs to you today
Re: i told him kitkat: Okay, you did it. You gave him a chance. He might not go for it but YOU extended the hand. You were true to what you were/are feeling. Not a darned thing wrong with that!
Re: i told him icwtsmnl: word.
:)
Re: i told him broken_saint: NAHMEAN!
Re: i told him broken_saint: [quote author=icwtsmnl link=topic=30533.msg303129#msg303129 date=1151071078">
I told this to another person on here when we were complaining about how stupid we felt after calling/texting our exes. what i said was, ok, it's not the "PC" thing to do, but we are human and we still have feelings of love and warmth. and it is never wrong to express caring. even if you got no response from the ex, just know that you released some pent of feelings of love, not hate. it's ok. don't kick yourself. just let it go and move on.
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my ex only contacted me a couple times out of either pity or guilt after she kicked me out of her life. she would email me that she was thinking of me ... yada yada, and she even sent a pic of us to me. she was blantantly messing with my head and just giving me false hope. how do i know that for sure? well i followed up with what i thought was her attempt to "fix" things or have a "talk" or some sort of compromise. she would just yell at me for trying to see or talk to her and that "nothing i say or do could change anything" ..... it was just cruel. truth was she was with someone else and just denying it. i even heard she was pregnant.... then again, it's just things i heard.
anyhow i ended up changing my phone number, email address and any method of contact. i just couldn't handle it. i ended up severely depressed cuz of it and had to seek professional help and ended up with anti-depressant pills.
her method or contact wasnt human nor did it carry any compassion. 9 years and i did nothing wrong to deserve it after all this time. i still hold her ring.
=(
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