Re: Finally My Story!! lilly10: [quote author=Dee link=topic=30535.msg303165#msg303165 date=1151074639">
Shey
Thanks for that I needed it. ;D, I know that he says a lot of things to hurt me and I just keep letting him do it b/c I feel that is the way to keep in contact with him. How can I love someone that treats me this way?
Dee
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This breaks my heart I know exactly what you mean. Dee stronger days will come your way. Right now you feel so hurt and alone (I know),but soon you will get to anger and believe me you will not keep letting him hurt you. He says some really cruel things to you and I can imagine your reaction to him is utter sadness and aching emotion. Cut off contact with him you will get much stronger that way.
(((HUGS))) coming your way!!
Re: Finally My Story!! thehitekrednek: Ok, The guy is an a$$!!!!! That cutdown about having kids, is bull$hit. If you have been reading, you know what I'm going to say. Break all contact with him. See your stepdaughter, without him involved. Don't call, don't email. Stop all communication. You have lots to keep you occupied, and he couldn't even appreciate that, what a loser. You will find it hard to break it completely, but it will subside, and those girl scouts will look up to you for being strong enough to do this. You will be just fine. Keep coming here, and when you feel like contacting him, write it here. That way you get your say without being belittled.
Re: Finally My Story!! smokin: yeah, i also agree. he told you about the kid copout, to hurt you and hurt you only, and to have a scape goat reason to get out.........
i say K.T.T.B. (knee to the balls) lol.....
better days are coming, and post alot. welcome under bad conditions............
Re: Finally My Story!! gstrait1fan06: when we got together years ago, I made it point to tell him that I could not have children of my own and he was fine with it. He never really mentioned it after years of trying and hoping that God would grant us a baby of our own. Then he says that last night that after time of seeing other people our age happily married and kids to boot he just wants that life now. How do you respond to that besides being hurt.
Dee
Re: Finally My Story!! sheydp: no other response necessary. He is trying to hurt you.
Shey
