Convinced He's Mental ga_sunshyne: For those of u who know me..know that after almost 18 mos divorced, I have begun seeing someone within the last month. Well, my XH went a little nutso when he found out...but has been sticking to the no contact.....that is until today. Well unbeknowst to him....i am aware that he shipped his g/f off to California on Wednesday...so has habits go....I was expecting the torment and torture to begin then....he gave it a couple of day and it today it started. Starts off with a simple e-mail..asking what plans if any did I have for our son's b/day next week. That led into....."so are u and K living together part time now or what??" Well, trying to be nice....i simply responded no. He pushes it on and ultimately in the end....he has the nerve to tell me that back in April he bought a 3+ karat solitaire, size 7. So dummy me....i congratulate him, wish him well and simply say...well now u've finally gotten what it was u were after all along....best wishes on your marriage. He calls me a dumazz and tells me that he bought it for me!!!!!!!!!! :o WTF!!!!!!!!!! How is it that you are living with your g/f and go out and buy an engagement ring for your XW???
Not that I really believe that he did...but it all boils down to she's away the mouse wants to play. I cut him short...tell him he had his chances and opportunities with me and he forfeited all of those for his OW. Too bad, so sad.....keep on trucking, buddy. I have had enuff of the freaking mind games.....
But you know what....this time it didn't make me cry....my heart didn't feel like someone stabbed me in it....and I felt nothing....sad...but true....a 22 year relationship and suddenly I feel nothing like i used to feel when I would see his name in my inbox, his name on my caller id...or even a car that looked like his roll by on the road. I FELT NOTHING.....
How sad is that????
Hmmm....where does this put me now on the divorce recovery road????
I'm not sad...I am actually doing really well.
Re: Convinced He's Mental Lumpy: That's not sad Sunshyne it's progress.
Re: Convinced He's Mental ga_sunshyne: is that what it is???? Good thing though, right???
I guess im sad that I don't feel it. Like I should... I dunno....don't mind me I am an idiot.
Re: Convinced He's Mental candi: please try to ignore his emails or calls unless it concerns your child.he is just lying and tring to get to you because now hes alone .its like whenever its good for himhe lives off screwing with your head because his head is not screwed on too tight .hes very immature ..what a jerk
