Re: Please help me get thru this night larry: I think you should disregard the 'other woman' issue for now. The fact that he is there is your primary problem now. Him being there is NOT helping you in the least, and I agree that he should go somewhere else for help. It's certainly not fair to you or the children, and it's one thing to bandage his wounds and send him on his way, it's another thing entirely for him to exploit it and not give you some explanation or anything. Get him out of the house.
Re: Please help me get thru this night Roseville: [quote author=Batman link=topic=30561.msg303528#msg303528 date=1151115370">
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[size=14pt"> Or I'd tell that jerk that he seemed to have HIT THE ROAD pretty well a week ago, and to DO IT AGAIN.[/size">
I can't believe he's using you like this. It's seriously f*cked up.
He doesn't deserve someone to take care of him if he can't even TALK about commitment.
I'm sorry, but I want to squeeze that b@stard's bandages or possibly spill a bottle of rubbing alcohol all over him.
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Batman,
I guess you're the closest thing that I've got for a Big Brother to look out for me. Your comments are true, and they made me laugh (I wasn't even sure I could do that anymore) It is such a deep compassion to be able to feel for someone that you only know thru a medium like this. Thank You.
I'm sitting here watching Numb3rs on TV, doing a crossword (kids are asleep, yeah) and reading on here. Waiting for something I've swallowed or drank to put me to sleep for the night - I've got a long road tomorrow.
Re: Please help me get thru this night larry: You can do it. Just try to close your eyes, and clear your mind. If you have any kind of non-lyrical music, classical, or perhaps some sort of nature cd you can play in the background, try that. I find that some background noise, whether it be a fan or, in my case, a rain cd, helps me relax and sleep. God will bring you rest and peace. And just remember, the sun WILL rise tomorrow! Every day, every minute, every second that goes by, you will heal and become a better, stronger, wiser woman. :)
Re: Please help me get thru this night Freckles: [color=red"> I've been instructed NOT to touch him. To back off and give him space. This is so hard to do. He has given me a couple of pecks on the lips and that's about it in a month. [/color">
He is Mad at you about something. It will not get better until you know what it is.(it can only get worse)
I have no idea what your Marrage is like. None.
But, Here is a Example: My Stbxws Sister would sleep on the Couch EVERY Night. And When her husband got up to go to work. SHE would go to bed.
(He left her for anouther Woman, And She has No Idea why)
Last Month and 1/2 of MY Marrage my StbxW would Sit on Couch ALL Night(EVERY NIGHT)
When I got up , She would go to bed.
That is Not good.
Very Not good.
Sex is the Glue that Holds a Marrage Together
(No Sex, and Someone is going to look For it elsewhere)
My post may be Helpful or Not jus my 2 cents
Take it or leave It as You Will
:)
Does Not matter to Me Ether Way
[color=red"> Marginal marrage Advice from Freckles Your Marrage Advisor[/color">
P.S.
The Opinions Expressed By Freckles the Owner are Those of Freckles the Tabby Cat
Who is Now Outside playing with Her Cat Friends
:)
Re: Please help me get thru this night Lumpy: [quote author=Freckles link=topic=30561.msg303541#msg303541 date=1151117106">
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Once again Freckles shows us, there is no "I" in marrage.
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