I CANT TAKE THIS FEELING candi: Is there a guy on here that could possibly explain why a guy would act a certain way? How he can love you and ask you to marry him say you’re the most beautiful girl in Vegas (that’s were I live).
Spend every waking hour with me. Then tell me I am not on his team and I don’t care enough about him, constantly needs praise from me then breaks up with me. Assumed because he thought that I would renege on rent. (I was going to pay it regardless) but decided not to after I learned that he went into my bank account and transferred my money to our joint account.
Denied he did that and said I jumped ship on him. I’ve written him a million letters from my heart, which I will post. But insists I was never there for him, he then brags about a women in his office that was a raiderette in 1986 and is now a lender and that I should admire her.
Like I give a crap about some 44 year old with a butter face he insists they have never hooked up which I believe cuz she’s engaged to a guy that is worth 50 mil but if she was such a class act why would she send pics of herself that are slutty to him. I’m so hurt I cant eat, sleep, think, I have flutters in my chest.
He was the guy that was there for me no matter what for 7 years then became my boyfriend then fiancé. I could never trust another. He loved me more than anyone and protected me for years now he is gone too. I don’t get it. I’m beautiful, smart, funny and caring. I know he has narcissistic personality disorder he fits it to the t .its creepy actually. He finally called me tonight but insists that I screwed him over ...please help
Re: SORRY 4 MY RUN ON SENTENCES BUT I NEED ADVICE Feel: This just doesn't sound right... He transfers money from a personal account to a joint... thats the only way he'd be a ble to use it...
Does he gamble?
He is putting blame on you, you seem like you ahve been the one providing in this realtionship... He is acting on guilt....
It seems as if he isn't giving you any answeres, do you have a home together, can you look into his whereabouts, talk with anyone, family friends?
Re: SORRY 4 MY RUN ON SENTENCES BUT I NEED ADVICE candi: hi , thanks for your help i wish i could tell u the whole story so you can better understand .he insists that he didnt do it but banks dont lie.i talk to his brother now hes gay and a little more understanding .he sais he knows that i have done nothing wrong .if you wouldnt mind rweading the letters i wrote him that i posted i would appreciate it and any advice..thank you so much
Re: SORRY 4 MY RUN ON SENTENCES BUT I NEED ADVICE candi: I CAN SPELL USUALLY TOO LOL
Re: I CANT TAKE THIS FEELING ctrlaltdelete: [quote author=candi link=topic=30574.msg303630#msg303630 date=1151144550">
I DONT GET IT IM BEAUTIFUL,SMART ,FUNNY AND CARING. I KNOW HE HAS NARCISSITIC PERSONALITY DISODER HE FITS IT TO THE T .ITS CREEPY ACTUALLY.. [/quote">
Exactly. So tell me why, again, do you put up with this kind of awful behavior? There are plenty of men out there who would cherish you properly and not be such a self-serving jerk. Why on Earth would you consent to marry this man? It's bad enough when we believe that we love the person we are marrying and that they are right for us and then things turn out badly, but what stuns me is when we know they are wrong for us yet marry them anyway for some unknown reason (fear maybe?). Please think hard about this. Don't fall prey to the lie that you will be alone forever because you will not be.
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