work, kid, papers, ugh Ilosther: Man, I havent been here for a while, maybe 5 months or so. Was actually getting better on my own, after the great support and direction I received from the members here. I mean, I had ups and downs, but overall, I have been enjoying my single father life.
But things this week seem to be a little too overwhelming that I feel I need to vent. Forget the story of how and why my wife left me, I still don't know, lol. But this vent is more about my division being sold, and now they want us to work in a location about 45 miles away, one way. The way it is now, everything is somewhat close, my son's daycare is walking distance from my apt, my stbxw is about 8 mins away. But now, what if I have to commute about 2 1/2 hours a day? I know people do it, but things were going ok with how it was.
Then, the stupid stbxw gave me the revisions to the papers, on my son's bday! wtf. how inconsiderate is that?! Then she drops off my son today, and asks me if i looked at them yet. I said no, been busy this week. I was just so pissed, she's so in a rush to get this over, all I could say was "what's the matter with you!?" while she was walking out the door.
No response out of her, I never get one, even when I email her how I miss her, or anything to that matter.
So, I think all this has given me too much stress this week. Been to the doctor twice already this week, and on fri, I thought I was having a heart attack. Chest killng me, dizzy....dr thinks it's just a virus. But still, I cant believe the person I STILL am IN LOVE WITH, is doing this to me!
I'll live, I'm just venting. I'm enjoying my bachelorhood, but I still wish I had my old wife back. She def is not the same, seems so distant, easily agitated, and just cold nowadays. I really think she is sick, but I've tried it all.
So, I'm just venting, I need to decide if I will renew my apt lease by next week, but then, I dont know where I'll be working, and I dont want to lose any custody of my son.
Calgon, take me away!!!!
Re: work, kid, papers, ugh smokin: what does the divorce papers say? i had a provision put in mine, that either parent cant move more than 60 miles away.... if so, i would check it out.........
Re: work, kid, papers, ugh Ilosther: doesnt have any provisions like that. no lawyers have been involved, we have kept things amicable. she typed up the originals, and i had a lawyer review it, thats it. there's no mention of moving. we have always said we would do what's in the best interest of our son. which, i 'm sure will get questionable down the road, but for now, we will discuss all issues on our own.
it's a very simple settlement agreement, and divorce decree.
Re: work, kid, papers, ugh smokin: first mistake WILL BE NOT putting a mileage provisiion in there................
if she wants the best interest of the kids, then she will easily go for it. what if she decides she wants to move, and "thinks" its in the kids best interest?
i would. i did. and its the smartest thing i done............
Re: work, kid, papers, ugh Ilosther: i know she isn't movin anywhere! her teaching career is her life, and she isnt leaving it, she left me for it, so thats all she has.
but i know, it could happen, and i will strongly consider that provision. but right now, i'm more concerned about what i'm going to do with my job and apartment. but good to know, thanks
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