WHY candi: IM SO DEVASTATED RIGHT NOW WHY DID HE HURT ME SO BADLY HE DOESNT EVEN CARE JUST MOVED ON IM IN SO MUCH PAIN
Re: WHY drowned: Candi the word why is probably one of te most used words on this site. Why means so much and if your not careful it could turn into a obsession. I know I am fighting that too. All the things you feel you have done for a person and it's thrown out the window like it was nothing. I am suffering from a 13 year relationship that ended as quick as it begun. You know, I can remember our first kiss but I cannot remember the last. Sad, but the reality is a smack in the face. Damn them!!
Re: WHY larry: yes it is devastating. that is a very good word to describe it. candi, i know you may not believe this now, but it will be ok. we're all here for you. vent as you need. cry, let it out, grieve for as long as you need to, but not for too long, and then slowly build your life again. everyone's circumstances and stories here are different, but i believe the end result and necessities are the same - we've all been hurt, we all need support, we all need encouragement, reassurance, validation of our feelings (that we're NOT crazy or psychos!), and HELP. help moving on, and getting past it all.
i will keep you in my prayers candi. keep breathing, getting up in the morning, and you WILL be ok in time. that i promise you.
Re: WHY WhoAmINow: (((((((((((Candi)))))))))))))
My heart is breaking for you because I know exactly how you feel. I had those very feelings when I had my (one of many) breakdowns this past Friday. I think and I could be wrong, but I *think* it appears easier for the person that leaves because they have made the decision. They already either feel a different way or have moved on in their head. At least that's the case in my situation. And it DOES HURT BADLY to know they can just move on. That they don't seem to care how badly you are hurting. I think they do know........it's just too painful to see that person crying, hurting...someone he/she did love at one point........so it's easier for them to ignore. :'(
Please write me anytime you feel like venting/yelling/crying......talking.....I'm here to listen and be of support!!!!!!!!!!!!
Re: WHY rjack0612: Well, they really don't give a crap at all how much "we" hurt. The leavee's that is. Thaey can't feel anything because they have demonized us so much in their mind so they can avoid feeling guilty etc..
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