Re: WHY sneaker: To follow up on what drowned said, I agree that the ones who leave are in fact on a high and needs to follow through with their decision - hence the lack of compassion and the coldness.
But what if they took the time to think things through before making the final decision. I mean, often this is not something that is decided over night. It is the end result to a problem that's been there for too long. That's why they feel relieved when they leave.
In this case, do you still believe that this person will still feel remorse and guilt eventually? Wouldn't they have thought about the pros and cons before 'escaping'? Don't get me wrong, I couldn't be happier if my ex could feel just a hint of guilt. And not that I wan't her to be miserable (well, maybe a little - alright, I do!...) but I wish what you said is true and that she realizes she took the easy way out. But it doesn't seem to me that this will happen soon.
Re: WHY Feel: Sneaker,
some who do the wrong may just never want you to know that they are hurting, or want you to know they feel the guilt and the wrong they have caused.
I do believe that one way or another that high that they are on when they are doing all these things does come down and they do feel the pain, eventually!
It's like a drug, while you are on it you couldn't care and then when you come down from that you tend to look back at what you did!
Re: WHY e-blogger: candi, I'm so sorry!
Please continue to post - we are all here for each other.
