Re:How much time is acceptable??? Questions: Hi All,
Thank you for the words of encouragement. But, I don't think that anyone has really addressed my question.
How long before your friends and family typically feel it's acceptable for you to date? I don't want to rush into a relationship (I have a five year old daughter) but I would like to hear about others experiences and opinions regarding this subject.
An "expert" on the Today Show recently mentioned the "six months rule". I've never heard of this. Has anyone else?
Thanks
Re:How much time is acceptable??? Baby1234: Well, let me tell my story: My ex husband started dating someone one month after we were separated. We were still living together and I wanted to work things out... He filled for divorce and our lives became a hell, and I can assure you it would been easier if he respected my feelings at the time, I mean, it's ok if you don't want someone, but a little respect doesn't hurt... I also bellieve we would have chances for reconciliation if the other woman had not happened. Ok, answering your question, his male friends were all supportive "Yeah, man, you gotta move on". Those kinds of friends will tell you to go and sleep around without problem. Our good friends and families thought it was too soon. At least wait for your final divorce, then go on, is my opinion. It looks more decent, though.
Re:How much time is acceptable??? justmenow: [quote"> How long before your friends and family typically feel it's acceptable for you to date?[/quote">
Let me answer your question with a question - Who cares if your friends and family think it's "acceptable" to date? IMHO, it is acceptable to date when you feel it is right for you - not a minute less or a minute more. Who's life is this anyway? They don't have to live with the consequences of your choices, you do.
Re:How much time is acceptable??? overseas: I've found that friends and family adapt very quickly to changing circumstances. So whatever you decide, people will adapt! The important thing is to treat everyone with respect, get the opinions of those you trust in order to make an informed, balanced decision, and then you will see who truly cares about your well-being among your friends and family! True friends care for your well-being, which only you can determine.
Re:How much time is acceptable??? Sharp: I've been divorced a year now, and still am battling w/being ready to date. My friends and family, however have been pushing me to start dating again from the second my divorce was over. It does all depend on th circumstances however. My family was never really fond of my ex and believe I should find a new man in my life to also provide my daighter w/a father figure. So they've pushed me from the beiginning which has only caused me to be even more hesitant. I hope that answers your question somewhat! =)
