he's lying and cheating I dont know what 2 do unikgrl: Hi i was reading a story right know so i decided to write one because i'm in some desperate need of help.
See this all starts about 3 years ago when i met him we'll call him babydoll, my first impression of him was damm he's fine, i thought that we would just go out once but it didnt happen that way we ended up seeing eachother everyday from that day forward, see babydoll was just beginning to sell drugs but i didnt care and around that time he stopped having his normal life, so when we got together i didnt see the soft side only the asshole part, we were together for about 2years before he even took me out on our first date. I
Know that i'm better that the way he treats me but i cant figure out why i just cant let him go. Well it all started about 6, or 7 months in the relationship he got a phone call from some girl well he stayed talking on the phone with her for about 15min with me in the car right next to him, well ever since then i began to wonder so i started checking his phone sure enough she was calling all the time and he always said it was his friends girlfriend bullshit.
Well one time around conehristmas year 2000 late at night the phone rang and we were living together so i answered it well sure enough it was her saying how could i be so naive so stupid that she was in my bed with my man all kinds of stuff well babydoll was asleep so i woke him up of course he said she was lying and promised that he wouldnt talk to her no more, yea right.
Well new years eve comes around and about 10days later in the morning im getting dressed to got work when the phone rings and what do you know its her again we get in to it on the phone so i confront him again and this time i leave him take all my stuff. I was so depressed so hurt i felt like he betrayed me i felt like the whole time i wasnt worth anything , i lost a lot of my friends for him but he just couldnt leave her, well he ends up with her for about 3mos this time when hes with her he still calling me, well i also found out that they were going to have a baby, all the things he did for her that her never once did for me, well we end up back together again and its like the same thing weve been together about 1and a half and her number still shows up on his phone ive caught him at her house, caught him buying her things caught him sending text messages to her
I know its not over with them cause if it was there would be no more her but there still is, i cant stand her i just want to beat her ass and its not even her fault but just for all the shit she talked, to me i feel like he doesnt love me the way that he loves her, i feel he doesnt appreciate me i feel like we dont even belong together ive tried telling him many times how i feel but he says that its me that im crazy and that im always looking for stuff to fight about its not that its just that i need some reassurance that its me he wants ive told him that more than a million times
I dont think its that hard to let someone know how special they are why is it so hard for him why does he have to be so mean to me why did he have to hurt me why and why canti cant leave him i cry like everysingle day because i feel like its tearing me apart inside i want to know everything he does but i dont want to be one of those girlfriends i just dont know, he bought me my townhouse that i always wanted but im still not happy and i know its because of him if anyone out there has any advice please reply i need all the help i can get
Re:he's lying and cheating I dont know what 2 do Luv2drive85: Unikgrl...you ARE unique! GET RID OF HIM!! why are you doing this to yourself? You are SO much better than him and so much better off without him! I was in a co-dependent, abusive relationship with my husband...until I left! i know its hard, trust me...we have a house and 10years together (no kids thank god). Im still going through the legistics with him on the house and legal separation...its not easy but Im doing it b/c its the best thing. I dont want to be single and alone but its better than dealing with his garbage. Sounds like you dont have as many ties to this guy (house, kids, etc...) you HAVE TO walk away...you are stong enough to do it. Take it day by day. Dont look at the big picture, its too scary that way. I NEVER thought Id have the courage to leave..but with support from family and friends I did. Is there anyone you can lean on for support? anyone at all?
Re:he's lying and cheating I dont know what 2 do lthacker0708: GIRL,
You have to like yourself before you can be truly loved. Leave him! He won't change. I know this may be hard for you to hear, but it would be for the best. After you leave him, get yourself some counseling. After you find out who you need to be, then the right guy will appear.
movin' on
Re:he's lying and cheating I dont know what 2 do unikgrl: [quote author=movinon' thank you guys for the advice the more i can get the stronger ill be thankslink=board=1;threadid=3073;start=0#msg24797 date=1085676423">
GIRL,
You have to like yourself before you can be truly loved. Leave him! He won't change. I know this may be hard for you to hear, but it would be for the best. After you leave him, get yourself some counseling. After you find out who you need to be, then the right guy will appear.
movin' on
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Re:he's lying and cheating I dont know what 2 do unikgrl: its me unikgrl get this yesterday he told me that shes pregnant but not his i wonder iof its true
