Re: Worried about Court- Help smokin: im with the crowd, cause if her head turns around, you WILL GET ALL ,A ND then some. lol. but im assuming you are really concerned, so heres some marginal divorce day thoughts from goosetapeman
1-look spiffy. *note: can the bow on tux*
2- DO ABSOLUTELY NOT, I SAY NOT NOT NOT look at her, or let her catch you looking...................no no no no no...*do not break this rule*
3- if she liked your tomatoe plants, bring big blown up picture of them, and goosetape to your back. * i can send u some*
4- get there earlier than you need to be, so you can be all settled before she comes in.................
5- send me some dunkin donuts coffee........lol...................
its going to be the hardest day yet, probably........ remain cool *as you can* lool and do not think of good things, think of bad things........
goose luck!!!!!!!!!!!!............
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Re: Worried about Court- Help e-blogger: if one doesn't have any children, do they still have to go to court? I'm asking for my stbx husband to pay for our marital debt - $10,000 and for support. ;)
Do I have to go to court? I really really don't want to see him. I haven't seen him since April 1st - and that was when he stormed in to take the cat away from me. :'(
Re: Worried about Court- Help superwife: [quote author=e-blogger link=topic=31002.msg309179#msg309179 date=1151985180">
if one doesn't have any children, do they still have to go to court? I'm asking for my stbx husband to pay for our marital debt - $10,000 and for support. ;)
Do I have to go to court? I really really don't want to see him. I haven't seen him since April 1st - and that was when he stormed in to take the cat away from me. :'(
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I think it depends on the state, and perhaps on the circumstances too. I was told I do not have to.
Re: Worried about Court- Help LostTeacher: in canada, or at least here, i did not have to go to court.
we settled everything thru lawyers, and it was all done thru paperwork between lawyers.
it helped that we didn't have kids, and that i gave up almost everything, but it made the process easier, and it meant no face-to-face encounters.
the last time i had physical/face-to-face contact with him was april 2005, when we finished our paperwork for selling our truck.
not dealing with him in person was the best thing that i could have ever done.
LT
