Newbie here ATLfoodie: Hello,
My wife and I separated 2 days ago. She told me a month ago that she was miserable. I thought we might be able to work things out without going this route. I have been totally devastated. I do nothing but cry all day long. She was my world. I hope and pray that we will be able to find happiness with each other again.
I will post the full story when I can get my composure.
Re: Newbie here timetobefree: Sorry to hear that you've joined our ranks, but hang in there, read some stories, and post yours when you can. I think you'll find a very caring, helpful group here, even if we are a little odd. ;)
Those first few days are awful...don't feel bad about spoiling yourself a little. Watch some movies, lay around, eat ice cream straight from the carton, let yourself feel the pain...Don't ignore it or pretend it isn't there, because if you do, it'll come back to haunt you in the end.
Hang in there!
amy
Re: Newbie here chaotic: I feel for you. I remember the first few days and the darkness I was in. Dont try to keep it in. Dont keep it to yourself. Write it here, talk to a friend, coworker, therapist....someone. Get it out. Keeping it in is the worst. I know from experience that writing it here helps tremendously. But talking to people that care helps even more.
My thoughts are with you.
Re: Newbie here snkpack: Hi and welcome.
I'm sorry you're going through this. Truly. I know how devastating it was for me. There is hope. Someday this will be a faded memory and you will feel only a twinge when you think of this time. Until then, post until you verbalize everything you're feeling. Post until some of it all starts to make sense. Post until you've said everything that needs saying. It truly does help.
Re: Newbie here gstrait1fan06: It is a very rough road that unfortunately has brought us to this site. You will find a lot of great people hear to support you, walk you through it and talk you out of it. Just let it all out when you can it will make you feel better to get the emotions off of your chest. Hang in there.
Dee
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