what to do???? mikeychain: this morning i get a message from the stbxw and it is titled immature. we both have and most of my family has a "myspace" page, i know how stupid...oh well, i took my stbxw off because it was just to hard to see her face every time i checked my messages. i figured she would understand. well so does all my friends and my family and she gets pissed off and sends everybody a nasty little email about how immature that was and the she was the one trying to stay civil throughout this whole ordeal. ( i am assuming you have read my story already) well the message i receive says pretty much the same to me but goes into that she is not going to hold anything back if she keeps getting confronted. she says she is going to start defending herself. mind you, no one said anything to her at this point. well a couple of nights ago she was out and ran into some friends of mine and they weren't too nice to her. of course she takes it out on me because she feels that i am telling them lies about her (nothing but the truth). well she goes off by telling me that she is going to let everybody know why she left and that people weren't going to be happy with me??? WTF is she talking about...i would like to know why you left, you haven't even told me. she also tells me that for me not to talk to her family ever again and to stay away from them. i have a great relationship with her family and if anyone contacts anyone it is them contacting me. the grandkids are staying with me so how else are they going to talk to them? she keeps telling me that she only wants to talk to me about the kids and nothing else but she always finds some time to keep bringing stuff up. i am fine with only talking about the kids, but what do you do about the other family? i really think she hates looking bad in any situation and i guess she feels that when i tell my side of the story she doens't look good. who knows....what would you do??????
Re: what to do???? Lumpy: Put her back on your list? Maybe you could figure out how to change/block the pic? It's funny that she titled the e-mail immature. This is a fight that my g/f's 16 and 14 year olds get in all the time.
Re: what to do???? JNA: Welcome to Michaels Board...
Quote: well she goes off by telling me that she is going to let everybody know why she left and that people weren't going to be happy with me??? WTF is she talking about...i would like to know why you left, you haven't even told me.
She means she is going to start the "Distortion" Campaign against you...
My ex didn't want me to talk to the same friends we had so she made me look like the bad guy
These people knew me and were like WTF...
I did the best thing and just left
People can be "Very" Vindictive sometimes...Never under estimate that and always protect yourself...
Quote: she also tells me that for me not to talk to her family ever again and to stay away from them. i have a great relationship with her family and if anyone contacts anyone it is them contacting me. the grandkids are staying with me so how else are they going to talk to them? she keeps
Because she "knows" what she did wrong and is worried about them finding out...
Same as the above
Insecurity coupled with not accepting her part in what went wrong...
She does not in no way shape or form want people to think you are a good person
Hard to explain as some call is Black/White thinking...
Quote: but what do you do about the other family? i really think she hates looking bad in any situation and i guess she feels that when i tell my side of the story she doens't look good. who knows....what would you do?
BINGO...
Me...If it was her family I would keep talking to them...
The friends thing...Not sure about that one
She reaks of Insecurity...
You know that "right"
IMO
JNA
Insecure people will do anything...Blame anyone for things they cause
Instead of looking into themselves and that great "Void" they have...
To see why "they" caused" it
