He can keep his money. I want my divorce! Fjord Girl: I've been feeling uneasy all day long. Sad because of my roomie's leaving, but also about all this divorce crap. Well, I just got a call from my lawyer. My EX is living in South America, he still doesn't want to pay alimony and he's not helping with the documents he's supposed to provide. Waiting for a court date isn't the most thrilling thing in the world. So I'll say this: F-CK IT! Sorry, that's all I can think of now.
I'm going to see my lawyer tomorrow. I told her I want to give up alimony, that I'm tired of waiting for some selfish person to actually have a little bit of common sense and that I don't really need the money now. I fought my battle and I lost, but at least I know I tried. I'm giving up because I'm tired of living in limbo. If he wants a divorce, he can get his freaking divorce tomorrow if he wants. Dealing with all this means dealing with him and I have absolutely no desire to do it anymore. I want to be divorced and have him out of my life forever. I never thought I would say this, but thank God I don't have children. Thank God!
Now excuse me, I need to go and kick something.
Re: He can keep his money. I want my divorce! littlelinsmiles: You shouldnt give up. You need to take care of yourself. Does he have a retirement account? You are entitled to half of that if he does. That could really help out.
Re: He can keep his money. I want my divorce! superwife: ((((((((((((((FG))))))))))))))))
Many people will tell you that you are not wise for thinking this way. Maybe I'm just as 'dumb' as you, but I can relate. I am not asking for alimony. I never wanted his money. I did ask fr child support, only b/c he stiffed me with absolutely everything, including tuition, dancing school, and any expenses that pertained to her. He left me no choice but to ask for it. I cannt pay ur debt, and support her single handedly. I would be albe to support myself just fine, if he ever starts paying his share of the debt. But I am tired of waiting fr him to come to his senses. He hasn't gotten the hint. Now i need to proceed. And if we cannot negotiatte the $$, what does that mean, that we never get divorced?? F*** no. I cannt hold out forever. Limbo sux. I may have to eventually give up...but not without a fight.
Re: He can keep his money. I want my divorce! brokenbaby: I gave up on the alimony as well. It isn't worth it to me. I just want the disconnection. I am tired of dealing with him in any way. The sooner the divorce is final the better off is how I feel.
Re: He can keep his money. I want my divorce! Fjord Girl: Some people think this is about revenge, about getting back at them. I'm not like that. I stoppe the divorce and went through all this legal process because I wanted to exert my rights, the rights I wasn't informed about when he left me and I wanted some justice. Now I see it wasn't a waste of time, per se, but I would've been better off without. There is no looking back now... I REALLY WANT THIS OVER!
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