Re: He can keep his money. I want my divorce! sxymom95: I was in the same boat. All I wanted my ex to do was to support his kids. I ended up having to take him back for more 2 years later. After it was too late I wish I had went for alimony too. Now I see that I should have been compensated for the time I did. Girl go for the money! I feel every woman deserves alimony from any man that backs out of their vows.
If they broke the contract, you need to be paid!
Good luck,
Sxymom
Re: He can keep his money. I want my divorce! Lumpy: [quote author=superwife link=topic=31018.msg309026#msg309026 date=1151962281">
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Many people will tell you that you are not wise for thinking this way. Maybe I'm just as 'dumb' as you, but I can relate. I am not asking for alimony. I never wanted his money. I did ask fr child support, only b/c he stiffed me with absolutely everything, including tuition, dancing school, and any expenses that pertained to her. He left me no choice but to ask for it. I cannt pay ur debt, and support her single handedly. I would be albe to support myself just fine, if he ever starts paying his share of the debt. But I am tired of waiting fr him to come to his senses. He hasn't gotten the hint. Now i need to proceed. And if we cannot negotiatte the $$, what does that mean, that we never get divorced?? F*** no. I cannt hold out forever. Limbo sux. I may have to eventually give up...but not without a fight.
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Absolutely you should fight. He's on the hook for half of any marital debt and child support no matter what. Some people just don't get this. It's not negotiable.
Re: He can keep his money. I want my divorce! smokin: [glow=red,2,300"> I feel every woman deserves alimony from any man that backs out of their vows.
If they broke the contract, you need to be paid![/glow">
im sure this means either sex, male or female........ but it suxs either way around.......