Re: One stressed out momma trying to cope in Ky: To be honest I have a welcome mat on my chest. I dont stand up for myself and I truely dont know how. My ex is here right now has raided my fridge just like he lives here and I havent said a damn thing. Haven't heard from him in days then finally he shows up to see our boys. I know he has signed the papers but it hasn't gone through the courts just yet. Afraid to push it. Does that make any sense?