LUNCH.... Feel: Guys,
Remember I told you on Friday I had court... well to make the long story short, he wants joint (hasn't been around to watch his son for 3 years even when he was home) I did not agree. I want spousal support ( he never paid a damb thing and I want and need help, never had it before) he said NO WAY!,
My lawyer said, ok then our business is finshed here... walked right out of the office...
Then I asked him to come to lunch with me so we could talk... another story in itself.... tried kissing me, telling me he wants it to work... YA RIGHT!
Saturday he went out with his son, I gave him an extra 2 hours.... still picked him up late, still dropped him off late and then to boot he spent the whole day out with the women and her daughter ( same age as my son)from work that he would talk dirty too on the phone with and talk shit about me too, ( I kinda don't mind her around my son) but anyway! Never called all day for nothing but yet when he is by himself, he text's pictures of my son and tells me that I a missing out!
Now Sunday I went with my NM to the cottage for the day and visited a friend in Oriallia, he called to talk with his son, which I aloud. He is only too call at 8pm every night, but because it was the long weekend adn I am just nice to him I gave my son the phone! Meanwhile he said to me to not bother calling him at 8 or he wouldn't bother, but the next day, Monday I had 4 text messages and 2 voiced messages, wioth him freakingt hat I wasn't answreing the phone... I guess the calls were out of range, I didn't get any messages or tex's the night before, he didn't beleive me, OH WELL...
Now last night he was in a bad mood I guess, he text me and called me blaming me for things and telling me that I was the one in the wrong.... NOW... this morning he is calling me again and talking to me about making it work then in another phone call he tells me he wants me to sign divorce papers becuase he wants closure if I am never going back! I don't want to sign anything yet... He askd me about 10 minutes ago too meet for lunch because he wants to give me an ultimatum.... ??? ???
I don't see what he needs, I was the one cheated on and made a fool of and took his ass back numerous times, now he is also telling me he has to park his car because can't afford all his bills... and he will use his dad's car to pick up my son! I laughed and said" you went with a women who wanted to take u away from your new family, she gave you what she did when you left your son and me and you supposedly buy this house with her (her being the OW that he was with through our marriage) and now, she is leaving you stranded with NO car, nothing to fend for yourself with... wow you left a house you bought, a new family which I might add you had everything with me including money, sex, freedom.... wow you are doing just great, well enjoy your new life, I hope your happy with all your accomplishments, but sorry, I won't sign a divorce paper unless, I get full custody and some type of spousal support!"
I told him I will go to lunch, I want to hear what these ultimatums are!
So nothing was accomplished in court another 2000.00 spent for nothing and I am meeting him for lunch to laugh at my ultimatums....
Can this get any worse! :-\
Re: LUNCH.... boysithurts: wow, it's like a soap opera "a day in your life"
your x is eratic, vindictive, imature, he is certainly in no position to give any ultimatums. he is being punished for his sins. you should almost feel sorry for this guy.
guess my only question is how your 3 yr old is handling everything. i know he is young like one of mine but he must be stressed.
