Re: Wallowing in self pity shpek: [quote author=mtmo link=topic=31050.msg309385#msg309385 date=1152034578">
It will take some time to feel social again. There are days on this roller coaster when you need to sit and cry, to grieve for what was. Sometimes thats all you can do. Unfortunately, the only way to the other side is straight through that funk. You can and will get through it, and OJar is a great place to share what you are feeling and for support.
Hang in there,
mtmo
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I think so too. The only way through the funk is through it! I'm in the same spot and life seems to just suck lately. Your zest is gone. That feeling of pure happiness. I know. But this crap takes time to work through....
We understand here...
Wallowing in self pity ATLfoodie: I cannot get out of this funk I'm in. All I want to do is sit and cry. I've been invited out to do things with friends, but I just don't feel social. I keep beating myself up over our separation. I know she is out doing things and having fun. I just can't right now.
Re: Wallowing in self pity jen: It will take some time to feel social again. There are days on this roller coaster when you need to sit and cry, to grieve for what was. Sometimes thats all you can do. Unfortunately, the only way to the other side is straight through that funk. You can and will get through it, and OJar is a great place to share what you are feeling and for support.
Hang in there,
mtmo
Re: Wallowing in self pity ATLfoodie: I'm going to try to get out tonight to see the fireworks. My wife is going to a party with her best friend (who happens to date my brother). How she can be so non chalant about things is beyond me. I don't think she misses me.
Re: Wallowing in self pity EssieDotCom: i agree with spooky. taking time to feel and heal the pain isn't a bad thing. Its been 8 months since my husband and I seperated and I still have my moments where I just want to wallow in self-pitty.
