Wallowing in self pity ATLfoodie: I cannot get out of this funk I'm in. All I want to do is sit and cry. I've been invited out to do things with friends, but I just don't feel social. I keep beating myself up over our separation. I know she is out doing things and having fun. I just can't right now.
Re: Wallowing in self pity jen: It will take some time to feel social again. There are days on this roller coaster when you need to sit and cry, to grieve for what was. Sometimes thats all you can do. Unfortunately, the only way to the other side is straight through that funk. You can and will get through it, and OJar is a great place to share what you are feeling and for support.
Hang in there,
mtmo
Re: Wallowing in self pity ATLfoodie: I'm going to try to get out tonight to see the fireworks. My wife is going to a party with her best friend (who happens to date my brother). How she can be so non chalant about things is beyond me. I don't think she misses me.
Re: Wallowing in self pity EssieDotCom: i agree with spooky. taking time to feel and heal the pain isn't a bad thing. Its been 8 months since my husband and I seperated and I still have my moments where I just want to wallow in self-pitty.
Re: Wallowing in self pity trying to cope in Ky: Self pity I think I am the queen of that. I remember when my ex and I got divorced and it seemed like he was having a good time and living it up he was only doing that to get to me. He did! In all reality he wasn't as happy as he seemed to be. Now that I have moved on with my life he doesn't seem to think it is all peaches and cream as I think he still loves me but he screwed it up when he showed himself when my bf was at my house. So dont think that your wife has gotten on with her life it is just that she has to make you feel like she has to make you suffer. Get out with your friends and try to live life to its fullest....sorry your going through all this.....Stick with us here and we will help you though it all.
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