Re: Over & Done anewday: I am so glad the weight has been lifted off of your shoulders.
I am sorry that he was so underhanded. But good thing he is out of your life.
Re: Over & Done trapped: What do you mean when you say that he paid to have you gone forever? That sounds rather sinister.
I'm sorry you had to deal with someone who turned so vindictive and hateful. Its disturbing how someone who once was so incredibly kind can then be someone that actually wishes you ill will.
I'll never understand it. Luckily, my ex did not do that but its sad to see it happen to others.
Glad you are free.
Re: Over & Done Fjord Girl: [quote author=trapped link=topic=31065.msg309567#msg309567 date=1152068913">
What do you mean when you say that he paid to have you gone forever? That sounds rather sinister.
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Oh, I didn't mean he hired a hitman or something like that. He just set up everything financially, very machiavelically, so I had no chance to stay around. He preferred to pay whatever he had to pay to send me away rather than giving me a chance.
I found out that when he sold our house, it was HIS MOTHER who bought it and her associate who served as a notary. I found out a year and a half later, after he didn't want to send me a copy for the sale contract... Of course he didn't want me to find out the beautiful strategy! It's an ugly affair of betrayal, deception, cheating and a lack of human compassion like I've never seen before.
This kind of thing makes me wonder if I really am such a horrible person. He sure was disgusted with me and I can't, for the love of God, identify what I did so freaking wrong to be treated like the scum of the earth. But he's probably deranged. I'm better off without.
I'm emotionally drained. I don't know if I should cry, be angry or just laugh because the things I had to hear today from the lawyer just don't make any sense. I looked at her in disbelief and she looked at me like thinking "Girl, who the hell did you marry???" -- I just talked to my mom on the phone and I told her "If every man I'm going to meet is such a 'gem', I prefer to be alone, tyvm."
I'm absolutely tired, yet I know I won't get much sleep. Going to work tomorrow will be a huge task because, if I'm honest, at this very moment all I want to do is get under my covers and cry... just cry all day long... This is un-freaking-believable. Not to mention a thousand a times harder because I am, indeed, all alone here and the only shoulder I have to cry on is a computer screen.
Re: Over & Done trapped: Wow. I've witnessed many divorces get ugly but yours sounds like an absolute nightmare.
What an horrific ordeal.
I hope you've been subject to the last of it and can now have a life without such toxicity and hate.
HUGS!!!
Re: Over & Done Fjord Girl: Thanks, Trapped. That is only part of the story. I won't tell you the rest or you will have nightmares, believe me...
And here I was thinking that I didn't have such a horrible story. Every time I tell it, I end up laughing because it sounds like I'm just telling a movie or a really bad book. I should give more credit to myself... This is horrible, just horrible. It's very disappointing to see what a human being can become when selfishness is the only word in his dictionary. *Shudders*
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