Limbo ATLfoodie: One of the hardest things for me to deal with right now is being in limbo. I don't know what my wife is going to do. I honestly don't know if she wants to save our marriage. This is killing me. If I knew one way or the other i could start the healing process.
Re: Limbo lonely_n_upset: it is hard but even when you do know the answer and it is a bad one then you get stuck in the well maybe it won't go through process i am still stuck in that process even though my divorce is final in aug i am not ready to let go yet and i wish he wasn't either but it will get better as days go by it has little by little for me if it is at all possible you just got to let her know how you feel
Re: Limbo ATLfoodie: She is well aware how I feel. She knows I want to save our marriage.
Re: Limbo lonely_n_upset: my husband is the same way he knows i don't want this to end but he is stubbourn and he only believes what he wants i am not saying everyone is like that i just know he is
Re: Limbo JNA: [quote author=ATLfoodie link=topic=31067.msg309476#msg309476 date=1152048785">
One of the hardest things for me to deal with right now is being in limbo. I don't know what my wife is going to do. I honestly don't know if she wants to save our marriage. This is killing me. If I knew one way or the other i could start the healing process.
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I stayed in "Limbo" for a time...
Then realized ya know what
This is my life...
I'm not stewing over anyone
I found the "best" thing to do is to talk to other women and go out...
Life is way too short to ever pine over someone for too long
IMO
JNA
I don't know your story but if she is contemplating "Divorce"...
Then the "vows" are broken
