Re: my date smokin: shes on the phone, basically telling me she isnt in love with her roomate, and she doesnt see it going anywheres, and wants me to think about it.......
OMG. its doomsday or something?
Re: my date 2be: [quote author=goosetapeman link=topic=31075.msg310592#msg310592 date=1152221970">
do i like her for her, or do i like what she likes, does, and who she is, and what she has said, and done so far?
on the good side, i like her for "who" i see that she is inside.....but i havent fully seen all of her "interior" person....
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Well, this is what getting to know someone is all about. Finding out all teh good and bad stuff that a person has on the inside. I think again it comes down to how you feel about the situation. Do you think these things you like about her ARE really her, or is it some front she puts up to get people to like her?
Sounds to me like you WANT to hang out... so do it, but do it cautiously and remind her as many times as you have to about her "other" situation. BUt be aware that eventually she will have to make a choice (if your relationship grows to that.)
Re: my date 2be: [quote author=goosetapeman link=topic=31075.msg310593#msg310593 date=1152222317">
shes on the phone, basically telling me she isnt in love with her roomate, and she doesnt see it going anywheres, and wants me to think about it.......
OMG. its doomsday or something?
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Jeez dude... first she says she isn't in love, then she is, and now she's not... and she's asking you to think about it? You really like her, so it is worth finding out more about her... but just tread softly and carefully for a while.
Re: my date smokin: yes, i do want to hang out, but for mixed reasons. i do like her, but i am 80% sure its mostly attractions to her, which is NOT a good reason...
but do i stay, and see what shes like in the heart*i already know shes gotta good one as far as i can see* while its based on attraction?
so, the question is, is attraction enough to start a relationship?
Re: my date 2be: Of course it is.... basically that is what all humans do. We gravitate toward those we are attracted to... and then we find out if they have a great personality.
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