Re: THE BREAK UP clockwork: Thanks guys.
What sucks is that there IS a stong emotional attachment, and that is what is making this hurt so bad. I have know this man for 12 years, he was my best friend. I had NEVER seen a sign of physical violence from him. Not with ANYONE!!!!
He called a little bit ago and asked if i needed any of the numbers out of the cell phone that i gave back. I told him no, he said okay, and i hung up.
It felt really strange because when I answered the phone, he said "Hey" just like nothing happened. It was almost like he thought we were going to have a conversation about something, and when I was short with him, he had to look for an excuse why he called.
I don't want him around me or my kids. That is it. I watched my mom being beat when i was a kid, and that is something that my kids will never see.
Re: THE BREAK UP snkpack: If you're that scared, start the paperwork for a restraining order. Have your family testify if need be. Better safe than sorry.
Re: THE BREAK UP yella: Clock - You did the right thing, and I'm glad you did. He's a violent person, and I saw that in your last post.
Kudos for getting him out, now trust your motherly instincts to protect. Do what you need to do, but think as you go. Don't let your emotions take over. This is survival now.
It's the best advice I can give today.
Re: THE BREAK UP clockwork: Thanks to everyone.
I feel better for now. I am not going to file the RO unless he contacts me again. Then all I have to do is call the xh (OH JOY) or another friend at the sheriff's dept and i can get done what i need to.
i don't think he will bother me, it just frazzled me for a while. Rest assured though, at the first sign of trouble i will nail his little butt with papers so fast he won't know what hit him.
I'm conflicted as to what to do about telling the xh anything at all actually. Our son was there and he has a tendency to talk about things that happen. I don't want him to think that J had me down beating the crap out of me in front of K, but I really don't want to tell him ANYTHING if i don't have to.
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I HATE DATING, AND I HATE BEING SINGLE!!!!!!! >:( >:(
Re: THE BREAK UP snkpack: I would go with not mentioning it. If your children choose to tell him and he asks for an explanation, tell him the truth. He can't fault you for the incident because you tried everything to prevent it from occuring. But never talk to that loser again. >:(
