Re: I Give Up snkpack: Satan gives out handouts too.
Re: I Give Up 2be: One good thing: You get to come here and vent and cry and scream at the world and we all accept you for who you are and the pain you're going through. Your dumb X-HO doesn't have that. It may look golden for her now but karma WILL come around.
Chin up, dude. It sucks, yes.... no doubt about it. Just put one foot in front of the other and try to glean the TINIEST bit of happiness each and every day.
I remember one day the ONLY thing that kept me afloat was seeing a butterfly land on a flower next to me as I was bawling my eyes out on my lunch hour.
Re: I Give Up icwtsmnl: [quote author=BDAD link=topic=31092.msg309885#msg309885 date=1152128606">
The cheating ho, has none of this. She is living the high life with the OM. Where is the justice?
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Everyone with an OW or OM story has to realize, you're only ASSUMING that your ex is living the high life or has nothing but happiness. It's very human to think that, but I can assure you, most of these exes have their own unhappinesses (subconscious or not) to deal with. They may be glad to be with OM or OW, but many of them have to deal with guilt, or wondering if they made the right choice (even if they never admit it), or find all sorts of shortcomings of their new W/M, compared to you. please please know that you don't suffer alone while the ex is loving life. Thankfully, life rarely works like that.
Re: I Give Up giver: SOSAD05 & BDAD.......I want you both to know that I know exactly how you feel. I myself spent a SOLID hour yesterday crying asking my family why HE gets to be happy when he's the one that did this. I was a good wife, not perfect but good. I was faithful, put him first, worked full time, took care of our daughter, kept his clothes clean, was submissive at the snap of a finger, and basically "did what he said when he said". Now here I sit, all alone, just trying to figure out what I did wrong and when I'll get to be happy. But my family reminded me of one thing. Of coarse he LOOKS happy. How else would he look. The last thing they are ever gonna let us see is any sort of unhappiness. they want us to think the grass really is greener on the other side, but the sad thing is we aren't there to water it for them. So it will die. They are so used to us taking vare of them that they'll only concentrate on themselves and that grass will be dead before they ever take their eyes off themselves. Do Don't worry. We're gonna have our day. and when we do, it will be true heartfelt happines.....not just this fly by night crap they've got going on!!!!
I Give Up rjack0612: When exactly is it my time? When will all of this sh*t I have been through pay off? I have taken the high road for what? 16 months into this bs and still no piece of mind!!
I have read everything, worked on myself alone and in counselling and still it is one disappointment after another. I have prayed so much I am getting calluses on my knees!! No once has God answered my prayers positively. However, my cheating ho wife is having the time of her life not a care in the world. What do I get? Nothing. I give the fu*k up!!
