6 dates...no kiss?? craigscs: yesterday, this girl brought me to her house to meet her parents. I spent 6 hours with her family and they seemed to like me alot. I am pretty good with people, so I figured the family thing would go well.
we have been on 5 previous dates in the past month and talk on the phone daily
I hugged her a few times and kissed her on the cheek once...but she doesn't seem to be taking any initiative
I was going to try to kiss her last night when I dropped her off at her apartment, but she just left the car and said bye
we are both in our early 30's
I am in pretty good physical shape and ok looking.
I noticed that she still browses the personals and is frequently online on the dating site we met
I told her a few dates ago I wasn't looking for a friend and she said she liked to take things slow. I had girls tell me after a few dates they wanted to be just friends before, and that never works out.
I am kind of confused right now
she is planning future dates with me....also note...I pay for all the dates...I am financially able to though, and she is struggling financially now, so I figure no big deal...guys are suppose to pay for dates..that is the way I was raised
Re: 6 dates...no kiss?? chaotic: Next time, try walking her to her door instead of just dropping her off. Then when at her door, give her a hug and lean in for the kiss.
Though, I am probably not the best to take advice from. I cant read a woman for the life of me.
Re: 6 dates...no kiss?? Lumpy: You gotta get aggressive big guy. No "planning" to kiss her. Next date plant a wet, juicy one on her. She's probably wondering why you haven't already.
Re: 6 dates...no kiss?? snkpack: Two options here. Either (a) She's not that into you or (b) She is a frigid b*tch who shuns all things sexual. Either way, can you dig it?
Re: 6 dates...no kiss?? Dolphin Close: Ask her what's going on. You can't be her meal voucher after date # 6. Seriously.
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